Friday, December 9, 2011
Thursday, October 27, 2011
"Clinging, I shall die of boredom...."
This line is what i think whenever i think of job here in IT.
The money ... the experience.. the people i've met.. the changes in me.. all were good.
IT has given me more i could have asked for and am thankful for everything received.
But time is up now.
Time to move on....
May i be blessed to be strong enough to deliver my best till the time i resign here...
This line is what i think whenever i think of job here in IT.
The money ... the experience.. the people i've met.. the changes in me.. all were good.
IT has given me more i could have asked for and am thankful for everything received.
But time is up now.
Time to move on....
May i be blessed to be strong enough to deliver my best till the time i resign here...
Monday, October 17, 2011
Mission Marriage
"When the bride is ready, the groom arrives"
...teacher student quote in the matrimonial context.
My Groom nowhere in sight, so maybe there's something i need to learn.. maybe am not ready yet...
i enjoy being single. but there are times like this when marriage feels like a solution, a gateway to eternal freedom n bliss.
When i think of lifestyle change for instance.
Am sure i'll quit working in IT once am Mrs.Soulmate... and i can't wait for that day to arrive. no, not exactly the wedding day, but the day i'll submit resignation once and for all....
Anyways, max a year n single or not, am gonna change my FB status to married ;-P
Feeling sleepy. bye for now.
...teacher student quote in the matrimonial context.
My Groom nowhere in sight, so maybe there's something i need to learn.. maybe am not ready yet...
i enjoy being single. but there are times like this when marriage feels like a solution, a gateway to eternal freedom n bliss.
When i think of lifestyle change for instance.
Am sure i'll quit working in IT once am Mrs.Soulmate... and i can't wait for that day to arrive. no, not exactly the wedding day, but the day i'll submit resignation once and for all....
Anyways, max a year n single or not, am gonna change my FB status to married ;-P
Feeling sleepy. bye for now.
Friday, September 2, 2011
Friday, August 12, 2011
MyThoughts-CastAway
Watched this movie a couple of days back.
Nice movie.
Hero, lost to the world, alone in an island. With a football(?) to keep company-Wilson(?).
Wilson must have kept him alive, as talking to him gives him new ideas about surviving in that place. I wonder why there were no animals at all. Animals/Birds would have made a better companion under such conditions.
During the final escape from the place, he loses his companion. And on return to his place, realises that he lost his girlfriend too.
I still feel losing the football was more painful than losing the girlfriend :D
The two part on good terms and at the movie end he's shown looking in the direction of a different woman.
My thoughts:
Well, all's well that ends well.
He came out a better man for the experience. and after all the changes he has faced, the old relation may not be practical anymore.
The isolation of the island and the house of the new woman in his life truly matches.
And the person he became calls for that kind of woman in his life.
Life rocks.
Moral:
When the going gets tough, just keep breathing. The tide will come in, sooner or later.
Nice movie.
Hero, lost to the world, alone in an island. With a football(?) to keep company-Wilson(?).
Wilson must have kept him alive, as talking to him gives him new ideas about surviving in that place. I wonder why there were no animals at all. Animals/Birds would have made a better companion under such conditions.
During the final escape from the place, he loses his companion. And on return to his place, realises that he lost his girlfriend too.
I still feel losing the football was more painful than losing the girlfriend :D
The two part on good terms and at the movie end he's shown looking in the direction of a different woman.
My thoughts:
Well, all's well that ends well.
He came out a better man for the experience. and after all the changes he has faced, the old relation may not be practical anymore.
The isolation of the island and the house of the new woman in his life truly matches.
And the person he became calls for that kind of woman in his life.
Life rocks.
Moral:
When the going gets tough, just keep breathing. The tide will come in, sooner or later.
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Time flies...
How time flies.
These days its like kind of sleep-walking, sleep-working, whole day....
Am working but not totally there...
Just want out of this regular job, but don't know where to go..
(Picture a lady in desert with just sand and space all around...)
There must be more to life than just earning a living...
These days its like kind of sleep-walking, sleep-working, whole day....
Am working but not totally there...
Just want out of this regular job, but don't know where to go..
(Picture a lady in desert with just sand and space all around...)
There must be more to life than just earning a living...
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Monday, July 4, 2011
Get over breakups - thinksimplenow.com
http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-get-over-breakups/
Tip# 4 in this article is my personal favourite ...
Njoi...
Tip# 4 in this article is my personal favourite ...
Njoi...
Thursday, June 16, 2011
For Singles Only
When single, relationship word brings up a sigh in most people, especially if they were not in a long term relation before.
Its mostly due to the feeling that there's a gap, which one feels will be filled someone "special" is there in life to share everything.
Believe me, one can feel whole and complete even when single, if you know how to enjoy the state...
Be in relationship, with the most special person in ur life who's never going to leave you, who'll always be with you, accept you just as you are .. be, in relation with urself...
well, ones own self answers all those criteria which one looks for in a relation, doesn't it?
Listen to songs, and imagine the guy/gal is singing all those praises exclusive for u..
Buy something you love, small things.. something which u'll expect when in relation... buy for urself..
Cook something fancy for yourself...
Treat yourself like royalty... Pamper yourself...
Forgive yourself for all small and big mistakes as you would for a person you love... accept yourself totally...
And i believe the sigh which comes most often then, is the sigh of contentment, of the simplicity of Life... of the Happiness, of the Pure Love...
if one loves oneself totally, without restrictions, conditions...
Its mostly due to the feeling that there's a gap, which one feels will be filled someone "special" is there in life to share everything.
Believe me, one can feel whole and complete even when single, if you know how to enjoy the state...
Be in relationship, with the most special person in ur life who's never going to leave you, who'll always be with you, accept you just as you are .. be, in relation with urself...
well, ones own self answers all those criteria which one looks for in a relation, doesn't it?
Listen to songs, and imagine the guy/gal is singing all those praises exclusive for u..
Buy something you love, small things.. something which u'll expect when in relation... buy for urself..
Cook something fancy for yourself...
Treat yourself like royalty... Pamper yourself...
Forgive yourself for all small and big mistakes as you would for a person you love... accept yourself totally...
And i believe the sigh which comes most often then, is the sigh of contentment, of the simplicity of Life... of the Happiness, of the Pure Love...
if one loves oneself totally, without restrictions, conditions...
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Arranged marriage
I was sixteen when I first declared to my mom that I'll never ever go for arranged marriage.
Just imagine, you see a photo, talk for couple of days and then decide to spend rest of life together !!!
Thats one definition for Madness, i thought back then..
Now? well, time taught me that noone remains the same.
Love marriage or arranged, people keep changing.
In fact, Love matches can cause more pain coz of the expectations and false images we have of each other.
Love match, you expect the best after marriage and even minor issues appears depressing.
Arranged ones, you have no expectations, in fact most enter with a feeling of dread, that every small pleasure comes as a pleasant surprise and cause lots of happiness...
Plus, in arranged, you don't have to impress in-laws (after all they are the ones who came looking for you !) so half the battle is won.
and while i won't vote for arranged, am not against it either.
Thanks Life for the invaluable lesson
Just imagine, you see a photo, talk for couple of days and then decide to spend rest of life together !!!
Thats one definition for Madness, i thought back then..
Now? well, time taught me that noone remains the same.
Love marriage or arranged, people keep changing.
In fact, Love matches can cause more pain coz of the expectations and false images we have of each other.
Love match, you expect the best after marriage and even minor issues appears depressing.
Arranged ones, you have no expectations, in fact most enter with a feeling of dread, that every small pleasure comes as a pleasant surprise and cause lots of happiness...
Plus, in arranged, you don't have to impress in-laws (after all they are the ones who came looking for you !) so half the battle is won.
and while i won't vote for arranged, am not against it either.
Thanks Life for the invaluable lesson
Orange
'Orange' (telugu movie)
I loved the story.
It shows relation in a realistic way, and I could relate to it so much.
Its abt the fickle emotions in 'Love'... how its good only for a short while and long term ones are more or less full of lies or compromises....
End was also kind of ok, with the moral, that if you keep breaking up with ppl for some excuses, in the end you will remain alone with those excuses...
Instead of that, whenever you are running out of Love, never lie, never act... but try to love a little more and then a little more.. and then you can have Love greater than the Ocean ....
Nice concept right :)
I loved the story.
It shows relation in a realistic way, and I could relate to it so much.
Its abt the fickle emotions in 'Love'... how its good only for a short while and long term ones are more or less full of lies or compromises....
End was also kind of ok, with the moral, that if you keep breaking up with ppl for some excuses, in the end you will remain alone with those excuses...
Instead of that, whenever you are running out of Love, never lie, never act... but try to love a little more and then a little more.. and then you can have Love greater than the Ocean ....
Nice concept right :)
Hello
Long time. No see, no say :)
How come time goes so fast, and i still feel the same...
Have i changed or remained the same..
'Hi' and 'bye' come more easily now than before.
Perhaps, too easily....
Well lets see in what ways i feel changed:
1. Am actually thinking of marriage :D .... weighing the pros and cons of arranged marriage.
I still got time to think of it, so i'll cross this bridge when am there...
2. Still feel sad when ppl go far, but not for long and not so intense....
A long pause, and i can't think of anythg to write !!!
Time for a break.
Take care and bfn
How come time goes so fast, and i still feel the same...
Have i changed or remained the same..
'Hi' and 'bye' come more easily now than before.
Perhaps, too easily....
Well lets see in what ways i feel changed:
1. Am actually thinking of marriage :D .... weighing the pros and cons of arranged marriage.
I still got time to think of it, so i'll cross this bridge when am there...
2. Still feel sad when ppl go far, but not for long and not so intense....
A long pause, and i can't think of anythg to write !!!
Time for a break.
Take care and bfn
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