I was sixteen when I first declared to my mom that I'll never ever go for arranged marriage.
Just imagine, you see a photo, talk for couple of days and then decide to spend rest of life together !!!
Thats one definition for Madness, i thought back then..
Now? well, time taught me that noone remains the same.
Love marriage or arranged, people keep changing.
In fact, Love matches can cause more pain coz of the expectations and false images we have of each other.
Love match, you expect the best after marriage and even minor issues appears depressing.
Arranged ones, you have no expectations, in fact most enter with a feeling of dread, that every small pleasure comes as a pleasant surprise and cause lots of happiness...
Plus, in arranged, you don't have to impress in-laws (after all they are the ones who came looking for you !) so half the battle is won.
and while i won't vote for arranged, am not against it either.
Thanks Life for the invaluable lesson
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Orange
'Orange' (telugu movie)
I loved the story.
It shows relation in a realistic way, and I could relate to it so much.
Its abt the fickle emotions in 'Love'... how its good only for a short while and long term ones are more or less full of lies or compromises....
End was also kind of ok, with the moral, that if you keep breaking up with ppl for some excuses, in the end you will remain alone with those excuses...
Instead of that, whenever you are running out of Love, never lie, never act... but try to love a little more and then a little more.. and then you can have Love greater than the Ocean ....
Nice concept right :)
I loved the story.
It shows relation in a realistic way, and I could relate to it so much.
Its abt the fickle emotions in 'Love'... how its good only for a short while and long term ones are more or less full of lies or compromises....
End was also kind of ok, with the moral, that if you keep breaking up with ppl for some excuses, in the end you will remain alone with those excuses...
Instead of that, whenever you are running out of Love, never lie, never act... but try to love a little more and then a little more.. and then you can have Love greater than the Ocean ....
Nice concept right :)
Hello
Long time. No see, no say :)
How come time goes so fast, and i still feel the same...
Have i changed or remained the same..
'Hi' and 'bye' come more easily now than before.
Perhaps, too easily....
Well lets see in what ways i feel changed:
1. Am actually thinking of marriage :D .... weighing the pros and cons of arranged marriage.
I still got time to think of it, so i'll cross this bridge when am there...
2. Still feel sad when ppl go far, but not for long and not so intense....
A long pause, and i can't think of anythg to write !!!
Time for a break.
Take care and bfn
How come time goes so fast, and i still feel the same...
Have i changed or remained the same..
'Hi' and 'bye' come more easily now than before.
Perhaps, too easily....
Well lets see in what ways i feel changed:
1. Am actually thinking of marriage :D .... weighing the pros and cons of arranged marriage.
I still got time to think of it, so i'll cross this bridge when am there...
2. Still feel sad when ppl go far, but not for long and not so intense....
A long pause, and i can't think of anythg to write !!!
Time for a break.
Take care and bfn
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