Time flies...

How time flies.
These days its like kind of sleep-walking, sleep-working, whole day....
Am working but not totally there...
Just want out of this regular job, but don't know where to go..
(Picture a lady in desert with just sand and space all around...)
There must be more to life than just earning a living...

http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/cab-ride/

Get over breakups - thinksimplenow.com

http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-get-over-breakups/

Tip# 4 in this article is my personal favourite ...
Njoi...

For Singles Only

When single, relationship word brings up a sigh in most people, especially if they were not in a long term relation before.

Its mostly due to the feeling that there's a gap, which one feels will be filled someone "special" is there in life to share everything.
Believe me, one can feel whole and complete even when single, if you know how to enjoy the state...

Be in relationship, with the most special person in ur life who's never going to leave you, who'll always be with you, accept you just as you are .. be, in relation with urself...
well, ones own self answers all those criteria which one looks for in a relation, doesn't it?
Listen to songs, and imagine the guy/gal is singing all those praises exclusive for u..
Buy something you love, small things.. something which u'll expect when in relation... buy for urself..
Cook something fancy for yourself...
Treat yourself like royalty... Pamper yourself...
Forgive yourself for all small and big mistakes as you would for a person you love... accept yourself totally...

And i believe the sigh which comes most often then, is the sigh of contentment, of the simplicity of Life... of the Happiness, of the Pure Love...
if one loves oneself totally, without restrictions, conditions...

Arranged marriage

I was sixteen when I first declared to my mom that I'll never ever go for arranged marriage.
Just imagine, you see a photo, talk for couple of days and then decide to spend rest of life together !!!
Thats one definition for Madness, i thought back then..

Now? well, time taught me that noone remains the same.
Love marriage or arranged, people keep changing.

In fact, Love matches can cause more pain coz of the expectations and false images we have of each other.
Love match, you expect the best after marriage and even minor issues appears depressing.
Arranged ones, you have no expectations, in fact most enter with a feeling of dread, that every small pleasure comes as a pleasant surprise and cause lots of happiness...
Plus, in arranged, you don't have to impress in-laws (after all they are the ones who came looking for you !) so half the battle is won.

and while i won't vote for arranged, am not against it either.

Thanks Life for the invaluable lesson

Orange

'Orange' (telugu movie)

I loved the story.
It shows relation in a realistic way, and I could relate to it so much.
Its abt the fickle emotions in 'Love'... how its good only for a short while and long term ones are more or less full of lies or compromises....

End was also kind of ok, with the moral, that if you keep breaking up with ppl for some excuses, in the end you will remain alone with those excuses...
Instead of that, whenever you are running out of Love, never lie, never act... but try to love a little more and then a little more.. and then you can have Love greater than the Ocean ....
Nice concept right :)

Hello

Long time. No see, no say :)
How come time goes so fast, and i still feel the same...
Have i changed or remained the same..
'Hi' and 'bye' come more easily now than before.
Perhaps, too easily....

Well lets see in what ways i feel changed:
1. Am actually thinking of marriage :D .... weighing the pros and cons of arranged marriage.
I still got time to think of it, so i'll cross this bridge when am there...

2. Still feel sad when ppl go far, but not for long and not so intense....

A long pause, and i can't think of anythg to write !!!

Time for a break.
Take care and bfn